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Thank you for all of your responses and advice. I probably should have clarified that she 1. has apologized profusely and has made a lot of changes since the first round of finding everything out and 2. has tried to explain the "why" and "how" it happened, which was essentially that she was...

Hello — completely new here, but really trying to find some unbiased help. Very long story short (cutting out a lot of detail for now): My wife and I had talked about opening our marriage and exploring poly for a while. I never felt our relationship was stable enough and wasn’t ready, she felt...