Recent content by bitterborn

Sorry it's been a while, reality and weather with it's associated power outages have kept me fairly occupied. I did a post a story --> http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=10222 If you want to read it. A lot of people have commented that I have found some amazing elusive acceptance...

And I am 44 and just learning....

(flame me if you will, checked w/ moderator before I posted, yes I wrote it) She idly twirled her hair; it was a gesture she wasn’t even aware of even as she took a childlike innocent pleasure in the act. Her other hand was engaged in a much more adult pastime, it held a steaming cup of...

You will find friends here...

Isn't it beautiful when things come together :)

I see people. I see them say they love their country. They say it even though history shows that truly they have been poor neighbors. Even when someone says the most idiotic things when they are speaking for the country. Even if they can admit their country has done things to people that...

Yes, the three of you can find a way, it probably won't be easy but possible. What has helped me is going through the blogs and life stories. Learning from others highpoints and trying to avoid the pitfalls they found on their path. I wish the best for all of you.

Sounds like an absolutely wonderful day, happy to see that things are becoming more comfortable.

Ever want to shake some sense into your partner and their partner? Last couple of days the two of them have been working through some issues. I have to be careful not to let my bias towards M flavor my thoughts, actions or words. We also have a guideline that we don't bitch about one...

M pointed out that Booger (the cat she once had just to annoy me) probably ate the ring years ago so it doesn't matter what side I am on.:D

Congratulations..... Your experiment seems to be a success! If you can't be happy for her and for the two of you then perhaps honesty and accepting that a poly relationship is not for you would be in order. Definitely discuss your emotions with her. Listen closely when she discusses her's...

Labels suck. M and I were discussing us (M,R,ME) last night, exploring the relationship, our feelings and emotions and how to describe the relationship. Thanx forum for the words to describe this. So we are in a V, she's the hinge, R is secondary and I am primary... I think.. My problem...

Hey mags.... you doing ok.. havent heard from you in a couple of days..

Hi, Fuzzy. Go to the Blogs and Life Stories section. Read the triumphs and failures. You will learn a lot, I promise.

No advice other than to change "other than my husband" to "in addition to my husband" It is amazing at how it can open channels of communication.