Recent content by bkreader

I think your best bet for a romance people would want to read is all single people that end up together. If you take an already devoted couple, it's going to take a very well written novel to convince mono readers that looking for a 3rd, 4th, etc. is a romantic thing to do. If you take 3(or...

It really depends on if you truly need a date night every week, if you need a date need every week except if something comes up, or just want a date night every week but could accept once every 2 weeks. If you have an actual need that can't be met compromising on it is just going to get you...

It's easy for emotions to go up and down pretty drastically when dealing with these kind of things. It doesn't make you an idiot, and ranting here first to give yourself time to cool off is a good way to get it off your chest without damaging your relationship with your wife. It may help to...

Your only responsibility to his wife is to make your preferences known to everyone. As far as community goes, being public with your private relationships is entirely up to you. There are a lot of people that are open about being poly, and a lot that only mention it to people they're interested...

That's great. Sometimes the direct approach is best:)

From the sounds of it she's definitely flirting with you, she's just trying to be subtle and not scare you off. I think the best thing to do would be the direct, but tactful approach. Don't just say "Hey, I'm poly and want to be with you and your boyfriend", but asking if she's flirting with you...

I know the situation sucks, but talking with your wife is a good thing. Although it may be hard to know that she can't accept polyamory, you can talk to her about the difficulties you have. By keeping open communication going, she can start to trust you more, since you couldn't be cheating if...

This may seem like an obvious answer, but the best thing to do would be to just ask her about all those things you're worried about. I know how easy it can be to be insecure about things, but by discussing poly it sounds like she wants your relationship to work.

My wife and I recently decided to start talking about having an open marriage. We're still figuring things out, but we're both interested in it. I know that communication is the best way to make any relationship work, and it gets more important the more people are involved. Can anyone suggest...