Recent content by blackbirdsings

This is a useful discussion for me right now. My Husband has recently started dating someone new. I am happy on many levels for this. It is the first time in our relationship that he has been with another woman and I am feeling some feelings. I don't know if I would call them jealousy per say...

I am completely in love with two men. One who I am married to "J" and the other one "M" who, if I was not already married, we would be running to a justice of the peace right now. I have a strong Polly dance community that I am part of but little if ever have I seen a triad out together. So my...

what a compleat pleasure what happened? goodness. I think it was hardest on me. My stomach was in knots. I kept wondering what would happen when J and M met for the first time? would they like each other. would it be rocky. would we all feel really uncomfortable. Truth is since this is all...

So today My Lover is coming up to Maine to meet my Husband. I am giddy and scared and excited. I feel so loved and blessed to have two such wonderful men in my life. They want to know each other and in so doing know me more too. I am so grateful that there are others out there going through this...

thanks to you both. I am enjoying what I have read so far. It just makes me realize how not "unnormal" I am to hear about others triumphs and lows on this path. I have been in a Poly friendly community for 12 years now and I am so glad that I had all that support as I worked through what I...

thanks for sharing your thoughts

Hello forum. I am writing in a state of pure bliss. I just got back from a weekend with my new lover and I am sitting here with my husband as he registers for this forum. so glad it is here to learn from and begin what feels like a wonderful new chapter/awakening in my life. :)