Recent content by Blaidwynn

love trumps paperwork Sisterinlove and I have been married for 2+ years and we have recently created a trio. my new girlfriend is still absorbing the whole poly idea and concept so we are taking things slowly - she has expressed that her idea of a future with me included being married - this...

Love is You sound like you are doing great and making good progress :D Putting yourelf in your partner's shoes, looking at things from his perspective is an excellent practise to keep up - Bravo QUOTE:"The other thing that occurred to me recently was that one of the ideas that stays with me...

try not to worry I am in complete agreement with Oliver and quila. If a woman is truly interested in you then sex, in general, is only a part of that package and if their interest is hinged entirely on sex then quite frankly you are better off without such a person in your life. Since sex and...

Potential My wife and I have a few ideas that may just help put you on the road back where you want to go but we are still getting our thoughts in order.

First Steps I have discovered that often before any seriously meaningful conversation can be achieved, the sender must first be introspective enough to know what they truly wish to convey. This frequently requires a "rough draft" of what you wish to say, followed by many rewrites and more...

Wow - I've been reading quite a bit of the threads here (undoubtedly not but a fraction of a fraction of what is here) and I'm not certain that I have a whole lot to offer - I am a poly who has only just realized that I am and have a wide variety of poly relationships (my wife and 2 others) one...

hi *note from the nerd section* lol the lord of cats was a kind of demon lord from oriental mythology if I am not mistaken (I just might be mistaken as my oriental mythology is a bit rusty lol) Welcome - I am from the Alaskan interior so we are here as well :)

I am about as new to this as one can get. A lot of my own confusion came during my first marriage, because I was still very much in love (and still am) with a young woman I'd known since childhood. A tremendous amount of pressure and questions of right and wrong plagued me. I could not discuss...

Understanding Hi Confused, I am new on here as well but I can tell you that from my own experience if you can simply accept yourself for what you are the confusion will disappear very quickly. It is not insane to love more than one person any more than getting married blinds you to the...

hey there - how are you doing? healing well? is your back still comfortable? I hope so. :) are you turning your cell phone on yet? I can understand the desire for quiet while healing. I'll try texting you tomorrow. Loria has signed on as sisterinlove (it's a kind of play on words I'll explain...

lol - I bet you had a good laugh :) hugs - gotta run though - still busy

nice pics - I still have to pick mine out - but i have to run - more stuff to do yet. I love you