Recent content by Blonde7915

Yes in some swinger circles there is a term used called 'progressive swinging' which is swinging with more emotional attachment then just having sex at party however the term is not the best because by the word progressive it implies that the opposite of it is not progressive.

Both As someone who is a swinger and poly I might chime in. Many swingers actually actively seek out relationships with other couples or singles (usually single females). Many swingers build the friendship before jumping into bed with other swingers, not much different from poly really...

Thanks for getting it back on track and yes I think you are right, when spanking was just something I would talk about like my husband would just dismiss it saying he did not get it, but now that I have found someone who gets it he does feel like he is not able to meet that need. The de-railed...

I think you are working two different posters into one. I am the original poster and there are no issues in my marriage other then my husbands discomfort with me forming a relationship with someone who shares a similar kink to myself.

Thanks for the great feedback. I like the idea of supporting him but in the end he needs to work out why he is feeling/behaving this way. As I said he has always been fine with other boyfriends or casual fuck buddies of mine. I asked my husband more about what he means by being 'punished' by not...

So in the past I have got great advice from this forum so I thought I'd seek it again. The back story husband and I have been married 10 years (together 14) open/poly 6 years. He has a long distant girlfriend (together 4.5 years long distant 3 years) and a regular fuck buddy. When we first...

Thank you GalaGirl Thanks very much for all the advice but especially to Galagirl. Those relies to D's comments are spot on to what I felt like saying but did not have the words to say it so directly and without it coming off like an attack. I am also glad you brought up the word 'fuck'...

I need a bit of advice and the like, but first I guess you will need some back ground. Recently my husband and I (together 13 years, open/poly for 6) spent a week with his girlfriend (who i'll call R) and her husband (who I'll call D). We moved away for work a few years ago but my husband and...