Recent content by BobBear

Redpepper, I have to respectfully disagree with one small part of your post. I do not believe that being poly (speaking for myself) is a lifestyle choice any more than being GLBT is a lifestyle choice. In me, poly is hardwired in my brain. I can not be monogamous by any stretch of the...

Married We decided to get married for a number of reasons.. One being the automatic legal protections granted to married couples in the U.S. Both of us have had difficulties (though minor) visiting lovers in the hospital for instance. We both wanted a little human back-up in case of an...

Hey there! I'm Bob and married to Kim. We are what I think of as a "true" poly couple in that both of us were poly before we got married and both of us have other lovers. We did live in a V triad for a while but it didn't work out. I was the hinge, Kim was one of the arms. Another lover (who is...