Recent content by bodees

You are reading it wrong. I didn't say she has two primaries first of all. I said she has become two peoples primary. There is a difference. I acknowledged being a secondary. However, she claims I am not and that I am just as important to her as her husband is. And you don't know what her...

We have been together about 2 years but nre isn't the issue here. This has been the case for over a year. When I say intimate I mean sex. Everything else is great. We cuddle and kiss and all of the other stuff plenty for me. I know I mentioned the overnights, and while I would like more they...

Her husband knows about us. That isn't the issue. The issue I believe is more that she doesn't want to disturb time with him at all. Like it is supposed to be the same for him as it was before she had someone else. No less time with her or anything like that. Libido had also been discussed well...

Ending things with her is not an option. When I mentioned seeing other people it was in addition to her. And time is a big part of the problem, which I keep hoping will get better as kids get older. But what concerns me is that we could spend more time together but don't. And I also feel like...

I'm new to the forum and I'm going to try and make this as short as possible. I'm mono and my girlfriend is married. We live in the same town and I love her more than anything. We both have children. We are able to see each other a few days a week usually but typically only for about 3 hours at...