Recent content by boi

Right. Thanks. How to do the work of trust though if the partner is anxious and confused about what they want?

Hello hello. I'm very interested in this question of privacy. Specifically, in deepening the question of balance in asking and sharing information about all that happens outside the relationship. The whole range: from fantasies, cruising dating app, casual sex, developing feelings for someone...

Hello again to this beautiful community. I hope 2020 was gentle for all of you. My apologies for not showing up here anymore last year but I think I had a bit of a burnout. If you're curious about it, the relationship with Xa ended, it was very painful but it was made with a lot of care and...

Dear Evie, thanks a lot for the very much appreciated response! Nicknames: Boi: me, 35y, F Xa: my partner, 31y, F Oki: my gf's new crush, M to F Vea: my previous crush, 25 y, F I've been reading this forum a bit last year and i was familiar with the NRE already, which didn't stop me from...

Hello beautiful people, i'm new here and i hope im acting correctly, please feel free to moderate my post in case im not following rules. i'm reaching out for help to deal with the potentially immense struggle i see coming. I'm an almost 35 years old lesbian who has been on a pretty long...