Recent content by booboofish

Thank you all for the amazing advice. We're working on finding a couples counselor now, which I think will be a great thing for us. We also discussed that I was feeling resentful before when we have "scheduled sex" because I felt like everything was on ME, (ie there was something WRONG with...

Good point. I've thought about this a great deal because it bothers my primary so much. I think I'm an NRE junkie for two reasons: 1) I like variety (as most humans do) and I'm very interested in "figuring people out"- their likes and dislikes. I also just like new experiences and...

^^^That sounds awful! I mean, if it works for her, good for her, but I don't think I could do it. The thing is that I enjoy sex and I enjoy sex with my boyfriend- just not as often as he wants it. I spoke to him about this recently, and he said "we cannot give up" and is willing to explore...

Ugh..problem is the he only counts intercourse at "intimate" and this is what I'm less into. I'm not sure where the compromise lies.

Dear all, Thank you soooooo much for your help on my last post. It was really great and I'm loving being a part of this community and reading all your ideas and contributing when I can. This is about something a bit complicated so please excuse me for the detail and I'll try to keep it as...

Great advice!!! Thanks all.

It is possible that she really just doesn't understand how important sex is for you. I know I had this problem with my bf...he always told me he needed more physical time together, and while I wasn't OPPOSED, I didn't understand why it was such a big deal. Sadly, I think I was stuck in the...

Wow! Thanks guys! I can see this forum will be really helpful and interesting. About the full disclosure thing: I usually don't like talking about what I do with other people; I feel like it ruins some of the intimacy I have with that person. HOWEVER, it is ALWAYS my bf who asks me about...

Dear all, I'm new here and I'll try to keep it short so that maybe someone will respond :). I'm in a 2 year poly relationship with my amazing boyfriend. We've been through a lot together, but ultimately I think its made us stronger. He has had more outside partners than I have, so I think...

Hey there- I'm an American living in Israel/Palestine with my boyfriend of two years. We've been in a dedicated polyamorous relationship from the beginning and have had many challenges and triumphs. I'm looking forward to getting to know this community since there is not much of one here in...

I feel your pain, but from a different side of this situation. In my situation, I think I "am" Azorkane in the sense that I always feel more sexually aroused by new partners and I tend to have a low sex drive with my steady partner of 2 years. This makes him feel really terrible, but I can't...