Recent content by BoringGuy

Get out of my town So you are a liar and manipulator instead of a rapist. You are not a human being at all. You are an instrument of evil. Flear: i had mixed feelings about you but now i am 1000% sure that i love you.

They are not "sleep-overs". They are "sex-overs".

Reddit is the new usenet. Use the search engine. If you type in "polyamory" somewhere it will put up the link to the subforums and you can add it to your favorites. It seems rather poorly organized to me too, and there is a ton of stuff i don't understand. I just go there to read Sexual...

That's correct. I was trying to see if anyone would notice. See, some of you DO know how to talk good english. I think a lot of people pretend to be dumber than they really are. Hmm... Good point. I wasn't thinking that, but it just happens to be so.

I'm speaking more about myself than TO anyone especially. There is a tendency for whoever started a thread to take the word "you" as being applied to themselves. I am also getting used to it when people think i have some sort of power over how they compose sentences, and i choose to express my...

Thank you for your simple answer to my simple question, and for not getting your panties in a wedgie like Cake in the Rain does.

This is what i do, but in some cases, being pro-active may be called-for. I only have to be concerned with repercussions that affect me, but when it affects what activities my (nonexistent) children might be included in or excluded from, it is probably better to be one step ahead of the rumour...

As opposed to what? The dishonest truth? Lol

I'd walk right up to them all at once with no warning and say, "we're non-monogamous, and we're all fine with it. If you are going to judge us unfavorably, let's get that over with so we can move forward and deal with it. Is this a problem when it comes to coaching? All we want is for our kids...

Perhaps the people who call themselves "swingers" are simply better at hiding their drama, for all i know. I am simply relaying my empirical observations of two different loosely-defined yet circumscribed sets of human subjects. This has very little to do with making statements about "how...

Why do you feel you need society's endorsement to "be yourself"? Just fuck 'em. Go "be yourself" instead of navel-gazing about how "society won't let you". Otherwise you are part of the problem. Take control of your own life. If you wait for society to "let you", you will never get to live.

I don't "identify" either way in any circles, but I, too have observed/experienced the same thing(s) you just described.

"Biatch", "Cabana Babe" & "Space Cadet" work for me, and they all come running because they aren't sure who i'm talking about.

So who is having sex with whom? Each male with both females? Each female with both males? The two females with each other? But not the two males? I'm just trying to understand what is, because so far the description has been mostly about what it is not.

I would like to see the word "obtuse" used in conversation more often, as well. The word "gradient" would also be nice. And the other day, I found out that I'd been defining the word "prism" much too narrowly, so I have changed the way I think about that. (HELLO to all of you who think I think...