Recent content by BreakTheSky

Hi Bunnielight, Thanks for responding to my intro post. You mentioned you were open to one on one discussions of polyamory. I'm just curious... did you and your partner Zed start as a monogamous couple and transition to being polyamorous or were you always polyamorous? If you transitioned...

As of right now Uncle Dave is my individual therapist and Maggie will be our couple's therapist. The first meeting went really well and the focus was on Maggie getting to understand my relationship with Klaire. Maggie said that she's worked with couples to achieve a polyamorous lifestyle...

Sorry I haven't responded sooner to your posts. I've been internalizing all of the information you presented and tonight is our first meeting with the new therapist, Maggie. To clarify Uncle Dave's advice, he told me that confessing that you cheated to your partner is not a good idea if the...

Yes, it was a cheating affair. It's the only time I cheated on Klaire in our five years together but there have been other close calls. Every now and then you just have a real connections with someone that is more than ordinary. When that happens I don't want to hold back. I certainly don't...

Thanks for replying Happily Fallen Angel. Per your advice, here are the nicknames: My wife = K = Klaire The coworker whom I’m interested in = H = Heather My first therapist (old school) = D = Uncle Dave My second therapist (open minded) = M = Maggie My friend who is studying to be a therapist...

Thanks for the reply Kevin. K knows that I’ve always been interested in having multiple relationships with women. I think she assumes that they are primarily sexually driven and although that is an important part, it is not the only part. I recognize that humanity is adapted for a very fluid...

Hi, This is my first post to this forum. Here’s my background: I’m a 29 year old heterosexual male who has struggled to maintain a monogamous relationship with any woman. I married my partner of 5 years (we’ll call her K) last September and I love her dearly. We have two cats and a dog...