Recent content by BrianCA

Just my opinion. It all seems a little unnecessary as a response to a simple introductory post. Frankly, it kind of is harping on me. That’s just the definition of harping. Everyone can have their opinions. My point here is I genuinely think a lot of the responses to my short introductory note...

After so many comments to this. I will note, I got this term “non-hierarchical polyamory” specifically from Jessica Fern’s book “Polysecure” and I will clarify here that when I say “non-hierarchical” I mean it in the sense that she speaks about it in that book. So if anyone who sees this is a...

It’s funny, so many people have commented on my original post as if I gave all kinds of information about how I am being “non-hierarchical.” I realize I used that word but it seems like this specific topic is a hot button one for many people. I did not realize this but I can see how it would be...

Hi! Fellow newbie here. Just began my adventure into the Poly world with my wife. We both learned A LOT from Jessica Fern’s book “Polysecure” and I’m excited and scared to actually start experiencing this new lifestyle firsthand. But for me, it’s the ONLY way I can know if it’s truly for me and...

Hello Everyone! I’m Brian. Me and my wife just decided to embark upon a very new chapter in our life and explore CNM and specifically Non-Hierarchical Polyamory. This is a very exciting and scary time and I’m looking for any support, constructive advice, friends at this crucial moment of...