Redpepper, wow I am not really sure where to begin. I guess thank you is a good start... I have been re-reading and thinking about your reply for the last day.
You have given me some options I did not even consider that really do make a lot of sense.
I can relate very much to the situation...
I guess I will just jump in here with both feet. I am Matt and I am a Polly. It took me a while to figure out exactly how to classify myself as I had never heard the term Polyarmory until a few weeks ago.
I guess my true feelings about love and relationships really started to manifest...