Recent content by Brightstars

Bari stables Thank you so much, Galagirl, your post is really validating, and it's helping me feel like I'm making the right decision. I realized that I created some confusion with the paragraph beginning with "I was fine being a secondary to someone else..." that was about a different...

Thank you all Thank you all so much for your thoughtful responses. I've been reading and re-reading the things you all wrote, and wondering about them. They've given me a lot of insights. It's definitely true that I bonded too deeply, too fast, as I tend to do. That was greatly encouraged...

Hi guys, I'm new here and I appreciate the supportive environment you have. I'm also pretty new, or newly returning, to polyamory (I was poly for a year a long time ago, but I was young and a lot of things went badly). I'm suffering right now as my "main" partner begins dating someone new...