Recent content by Brixbrak

@lovingradience - that's actually great advice. I hadn't thought of it that way, but I guess it's a chance for me to focus on myself more. @SNeacail - I agree, but it was more the fact that he didn't consider inquiring about my plans or how I felt about it when he would have before. I...

Hello all, I've had an issue before and the advice helped me out a lot. So I figured it was worth giving it another go. A bit of background : My partner and I have been together for just over a year and a half. We have been poly from the beginning, he was married and in another...

Magdlyn - He dates a lot, it goes in waves usually but it's way more than 8 a year. There are a few regulars where the relationship is based mainly on friendship, and a lot of new and fleeting encounters. I'm honestly fine with it. We're both very sexual people, so while some of his dating...

So again, thank you everyone for your thoughts. It genuinely helped me work through some of what I was feeling. My SO and I sat down and talked about it yesterday. He seemed to honestly not realize how stressful these experiences were for me and we talked about ways to make it more...

Thank you for all your input. To be fair, this is normally a once in awhile thing. He's generally very good at going to their place and the three in a row is uncommon. In terms of the noise being an issue, that can be part of it but even when they're relatively quiet I still feel the...

@inyourendo - if I moved out it would be equivalent to breaking up. When we moved out of my old place it was as a couple moving somewhere together. And everything else about being together here is fine. I don't mind him bringing women home, and I want to be ok with being here when he does...

I'm having an issue dealing with my partner bringing home his other partners and it's causing a huge strain on our relationship. Background: I met him when he was married. He and his wife had been together for 15+ years and had recently gone from an open marriage to poly. She had very strong...