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I have actually asked a couple of times. She has said, "No, I don't want to tell anyone my shit," as she puts it, or will say, "I don't need any counseling. You do."

Well, she and I have talked a bit. She still feels me having complete access to her phone and such is unreasonable and not showing trust. She says "That is nosey and you have to trust me." So I get access to her email and her FB to try to fact check. She is telling me that she only talks to her...

I've mentioned that to her, that she's not showing trust, but she says I'm not giving her trust by feeling I should have access to all her accounts and the option to randomly check her chats and such. When we first got together, I was a very private person, and didn't like her going through my...

And if she feels we don't need that, only me, or that I just look at this all wrong, and shouldn't be upset, what would the advice be?

I'm not real sure where to begin. Let me start with saying that I love my wife. My wife and I meet back when she was 15 and I was 20. She was in high school and I was just starting college. We were each other's real first loves and first sexual partners. We dated for a couple years, then...