Recent content by Bucephalus1965

I am so sorry for you loss.

Welcome to the journey of a lifetime. Patience, understanding, and not being hard on those around you as well as yourself is key. Communicate, seek out other like-minded people. Take that as input and form your own individual thoughts. Other than that. Enjoy!

Yeah I have to admit being a "secret" wears on me. They have full access to me, to call, stop by, chat. My neighbors know her car, what she looks like, one even knows what the Mrs and I are up to. Cant say as I know one of her friends. I guess the frustrating part is when I want to go out on...

Understand that. After the Gingrich "open Marriage" thing broke a news reported stated we don't date outside our "species". I pondered that for a bit. I think at times people want to try this but are ill prepared for the ups and downs of it, myself included. In most of my cases I have...

Dadt My wife and I are at the end of a triad relationship where the wife "thought" she had a DADT agreement. As their relationship started to skid she offered him to stop seeing us which turned into a "you've been fucking them?!?! since when is seeing them fucking them??!" A complete...

LOL so is monogamy.. sorry the ball was in the air I just had to swat at it.

Newtoday, I was inspired to respond to you post. "Those who matter won't mind; those who mind won't matter." My wife and I are in a very similar situation where we are the "secret" we support, we are there all the time. When she needs a break to sort things out, to plan to focus for months...

Hey Mick I am "Kerry" anyone wanting to know what i look like can see me there. Reading my profile I REALLY need to update that as well as this one. Me: have been poly though not open about it since I was 18. Currently in a triad with my wife and girlfriend and that as going nicely. If it...

There are a couple poly groups in the DMV area. Check out meetup.com there are almost weekly meetups in DC, Maryland and Virginia.