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    Who Writes This Sh*t?

    Yikes! I really feel sorry for these people. As a person who used to hide my feelings so my abusive husband wouldn't be able to use them against me, I would rather have all of the "yucky" feelings involved in a relationship than willingly go back to something like that.
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    What is the next step?

    Oh Sorry. I double posted.
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    What is the next step?

    Merry christmas to all!
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    What is the next step?

    The next step is no step. To the rest of the thread. My husband and I have agreed to leave things as they are. I will love both of them the best that I can. That is the right thing to do.
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    What is the next step?

    The next step is no step. Right now, my husband and I have agreed to keep things the way they are. We do not want to "freak him out" and lose our friendship. It is exciting and scary to admit to my husband that I love another man and have him understand that. I am not going to suggest that he...
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    What is the next step?

    His wife is no longer interested in sex because she has lupus. I agree that he should talk to his wife about what is going on. I would not want to incur the bad karma of breaking up his marriage. Yes, Budd stands for Buddhist. I haven't told him how I feel because I would rather keep seeing...
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    Any duplicate bridge players?

    I love Bridge!
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    What is the next step?

    Have a good evening, GreenAcres.
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    What is the next step?

    Thank you very much for that. My husband and I have told him that he has a place with us if his marriage ends. I will not tell the other party how I feel, although with my face he probably has a good idea! (laughing)
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    What is the next step?

    Would it be ethical for me to even tell him how I feel?
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    What is the next step?

    I believe that he would consider anything in bed right now cheating. We do greet each other with a kiss. We do a lot of touching. Sometimes I feel courted and then he pulls back. It's like he has to remind himself that he is married to someone else.
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    What is the next step?

    Hi. I am very new to this. About ten days ago, I told my husband that I loved someone else. I prefaced that by saying that I loved him and did not want to destroy our marriage. He laughed and said that he knew that already because I do not have a "poker face". I have read one book about this...
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