Recent content by Bunnielight

I'm sorry this is happening. It sounds like a really stressful situation.

I honestly am trying to figure out how to talk to his therapist and try and cover some of this just because, I know he said he was going to talk to him, but now I don't know if I can trust what he tells him right now. My husband said it was a wake up call and he's realizing how unstable he...

Honestly? I think it's a bit of both, but I think he lies to himself first and becomes so defensive that he really believes these things. And the rest of the lying is him covering his own ass. What he believed was said, was actually him cutting them off and reacting to what he heard. "You...

*sorry about this, just wanted to touch base again for those of you that are concerned or want to know* So, my husband spent yesterday afternoon ranting about how the conversation with my BF and meta went. Saying my meta got hostile, my BF didn't speak and ducked his head. He got stuck on a...

After being in therapy for a while, he has gradually become more self aware. Last night he admitted that he had a back fall the other night in the scenario I described and did apologize, but that doesn't change or undo the damage he's done to me emotionally when he can't control it in the...

I honestly don't believe that he would ever choke me or lay his hands on me in that way. He hasn't in the 5 years we've been together, nor has he hit or choked a woman. The closest he came to any of that was bear hugging me from behind to restrain me. But even that came at a really unnecessary...

He's been in therapy for several months now trying to learn how to manage his anxiety. Our fights have tapered off, but when they do happen, it's takes running in circles with him to get him to realize how damaging and abusive some of the things he says is. He's at least reached a point where...

*Im sorry about the novel but I'm in a fucking crisis right now and I have no idea what to do.* So my husband and I have been struggling financially and needing new jobs. I have a job, but it's a shit job leading nowhere and I'm miserable. I've discovered the direction I want to go in and I've...

I need this thread closed and deleted please. As well as my Live-in Poly Family thread. I messaged a moderator but haven't heard back.

:( I'm so sorry.

I am super incredibly stressed right now because of poly issues and I have no idea how to resolve this. I feel like I have the only solution figured out but it's only going to take time to rebuild this trust.

I appreciate your response, unfortunately this has evolved into a greater issue because it seems I've been deceived to a greater extent than what I originally knew. I've been debating whether to post it, I've just been trying to manage my reaction today.

Our agreement is that we simply disclose our interest once it occurs and allow us to become familiar with a new sexual interest. Allow that trust to have a chance to build. This is the only real "approval" method we go through. We don't even really have to like the other person, that friendship...

I need to know if another party is being considered. If for no other reason but for health concerns. we've all agreed to talk thoroughly about it before even considering it. When the threesome thing was brought up before, I was told it would be dropped right now. That was about a month ago. Now...

I would much rather know than not know. Not knowing what's going on is really the main thing that's caused all this.