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I don't understand why divorcing someone would be honorable. Could you expound upon that?

Did your Husband know that you weren't always using condoms? Did you and bf talk about getting pregnant? How is his first child doing? How did you feel about your Husband's vasectomy?

I understand that it's your choice, but why? Is it working out as an effective strategy? If you put yourself first how do you think that would change things. It doesn't matter what was known before getting together. All that matters is if everyone is happy, and if not it needs to be...

What kind of birth control were you using that you accidentally got pregnant? How do you and the bio dad feel about the pregnancy? Do you work outside the home?

You rank their needs higher than your own. Why? Is this creating resentment? Is this the philosophy they take? When they do something that hurts you what do you think the motivation behind that is? Ignorance, laziness, spitefulness? Is it a personal problem or a lack of love, caring, or is...

I have similar feelings. I have trouble keeping platonic friendships. It feels completely normal to me to go to bed with a friend and still feel platonic friends...that doesn't make sense! But what's a friendly 69 between friends? It doesn't feel normal to not be allowed to touch my friends...

So you all three live together? Are there any questions of paternity?

So, are your partners reading this thread? Why are you poly-fi? Why don't they come to your house, especially if you're allergic to their cats? I have some paradigm shifts that I made that have helped in my relationships and might help you. 1) I can only control myself. I can not control...

What are you getting out of your relationship with your parents? Is it worth all this aggravation? If not, than remember that you don't have to have a relationship with them just because you are family. What consequences would you face if you terminated communication with them? If you decide to...

How is your relationship with your girlfriend's fiance? Would you all four want to maybe live together one day?

How old are the kids? Do you all coparent together? What about the new women's ex? Does he know and how does he feel about it?

How old are your kids?

Well, Turtle wasn't too comfortable talking about the pregnancy plan, he said maybe a lot. So he's going to think about what he would do and want if I got pregnant. In the mean time, until we are both comfortable with the idea of getting pregnant, we will be using condoms. I'm not comfortable...

What does rationalist mean to you?

I don't want to go on birth control for a number of reasons. One of which being that I want to get pregnant. It's up to Turtle where he puts his seed. I am going to sit down with Turtle tonight about what the plan would be if I got pregnant. I want to come up with a list of questions to ask...