Thanks! I've actually been jotting down my feelings every day, just to kinda get it out there, and it's definitely been helping. I'm not sure if I'll share it with either of them when the time is done, but it's helping me cope with not being able to talk with them right now.
Yeah, that's essentially what I feel like I'm doing right now, honestly. I'm a lot more convinced that the next time I hear back from her, it'll be with good news. I think we all just needed time apart, and she and her husband needed time together to work it out.
As far as I know, their marriage/relationship has been fine up until now. When we were still able to talk, she expressed she doesn't want to leave her husband. So I'm not sure if it's a consideration at this point. I mostly made this post as a way to consider whatever options I may have. But I...
She and I have been friends since we were kids, actually. She's always had a crush on me. I developed feelings for her too, but it just never really worked out until now, basically. She and her current husband have been together for like 12 years, but only married for 2.
Now we've both kind of...
Long story short, my friend and her husband reached out to me and my girlfriend with the prospect of polyamory, and there was a lot of miscommunication that happened, so we were in the recovery process of that.
Her husband up until now was slowly trying to give me and also her a second chance...
Basically the title of the question.
My partner's husband has decided he no longer wants her to be involved in polyamory at all, but she and I are still very much attracted to each other, and the idea of being poly in general. I just wanted some advice on this current situation, since I'm...