Recent content by ButtercupGirl

Totally normal! Hi WhiteCloud, What you are going through is normal for some people (including me). While intellectually I understand why I think poly is great, is the best option for me, etc, there are times when I am just not there emotionally. For instance, I love my partners and want...

My hubby, boyfriend, and I all sleep together every night. We started that from the moment boyfriend moved in (okay, the moment we bought a king-sized bed so we would all fit). I love it! I never get cold at night now! :)

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Hi. London. I honestly don't think it matters. This is what they negotiated. They are adults who are doing poly they best way they know how at this point. Since they both agreed to a veto rule, I feel she had every right to use it. I think it is important to remember that not everyone is...

Hi theveronica, I honestly think you did the right thing. I get that the practice of vetoing is frowned upon by many. However, if that is what you and your husband agreed to, there is nothing wrong with following your agreement. It seems clear that he was breaking your trust repeatedly, and...

Hi there! I've spent time reading on the forum for a few months now. I really appreciate the amazing community that has developed here and have found reading very informative, helpful, and at times challenging. About me: My marriage with T has been open for about four years. Our intent was...

Hi there! I am feeling compelled to respond to the idea expressed in this thread that it would ever be acceptable and/or understandable for someone to not disclose that they have an STI. I find this idea horrifying. I understand that the stigma related to having an STI would be very difficult...