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Four more days It's almost time for W to come back home. He'll start his journey either Tuesday or Wednesday and I'll see him again on Thursday night. I should have taken Friday off from work!! Sigh... We have talked a little bit but I try not to really get into the subject while he's so...

no swingie!! Yeah, W was definitely more into a swinger sort of thing than poly. That was his past experience with other partners. We have essentially tabled the discussion until he comes home and until then I am trying to figure things out for myself. I've had some great discussions with a...

Standard and large. And the large man who wore it said it felt really nice.

The ones I use are the Skyn condoms by Lifestyles. You can get them in big boxes at walmart for oh, $6 too so they're super economical. :) They allso are the only non latex ones I've seen (at least around here) to come in LARGE. :D

protection I have to say I've been pretty fortunate with my partners over the past several years. They've all had vasectomies. And we'd all been tested, I was only with one at a time so we knew we were good. I do realize I haven't been tested for a little while now and given my new forays...

wow This is absolutely great! Thank you for posting :)

still working on it... I think W was most upset with himself about all of this. We had a huge discussion about it over last weekend and he admitted that he was acting out of his own fears and insecurities when he suggested I find a sex partner. I had told him I could wait for him. Now, he...

Thank you both for the advice! This is certainly not easy. W has pretty much said that if I decide that I am poly, he will not be in a relationship with me. He says he is not judging me, he will be my friend always but he can't be that way. Sigh. I still don't know what to do but I am...

I'm right there with you. When my guy is with his other gf, I don't hear from him much at all. She is fully aware of me and they are both poly. when he's with me though, he isn't texting her or talking to her on the phone. I appreciate that. When he's with each of us, we're getting his full...

drat basic cable!! I wish I got Showtime! I want to see this!!!

Thank you for sharing this article!

Hi all. I am finding myself having quite a dilemma. I am very new to the whole poly world and am having a difficult time. My bf, W, travels a lot for work and has been gone more in our relationship than he has been home. And when I say travel, I mean halfway around the world. We video chat...

Revelatory I had a bit of a revelation while I was out walking this evening. These are things I really struggle with: my faith and my sexuality. I was not raised to be poly. (Well, I wasn't raised to be anything, really.) But I found my faith in Jesus when I was 15 and have been learning and...

Ok, that's way too scientific for me/ lol. :) And to answer your question, no, I don't think you're nuts. Although I am very new to this, in my extensive scholarly reading on sex (doing the Groucho Marx eyebrow wiggle right now), one of the most profound things I read lately was when it comes...

So far... I have two tattoos: a butterfly on my back and a water jar pouring out water on my belly, near my left hip. They are both very meaningful to me and describe parts of who I am. My name means butterfly. :) No piercings other than my ears and I like it that way. I got second holes...