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    Stuck in "open" purgatory

    Hi again new friends. I took a long weekend off devices and was out of town with my daughter for a couple of days. I’ve been following along the comments and wanted to thank everyone for the shared wisdom. These meaningful responses have helped propel me towards further understanding. Knowing...
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    Stuck in "open" purgatory

    Thank you for these very thoughtful and generous responses. I am taking it all in and will continue to check in to see what other wisdom arises! Best to all! Caddyman
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    Stuck in "open" purgatory

    Thanks GalaGirl. I don't feel ganged up on and I do very much trust all of these people. I care for and love them. In a familial way. Jane is beautiful and awesome but I don't feel any attraction. Again, years of monogamy filters, maybe? Maybe also that I just have things categorized...
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    Stuck in "open" purgatory

    New to the forum and appreciative of this resource. Been reading for a month or so and just joined thinking I would solicit advice on my situation. I am 45+ yr old male in a 15 year marriage. My wife and I have a good marriage but have had some struggles along the way. We have a tween daughter...
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