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    BDsm

    I would still go to the munches if I were you. Many people do not enjoy public play but getting together with like minded folks is almost always a nice thing. It isn't always about play. You can meet people at munches who think the way you do. Often times some of these people will host very...
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    BDsm

    Great thread! redpepper-- I have to agree that our friend's attitude about sex and S&M in public play spaces is not the norm in my area. I am in So Cal and attend parties fairl regularly. Even at the places that allow penetration, it isn't something that always takes place. I actuall very...
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    Boundaries vs. Coercive Manipulation

    Sounds like a load of insecurity problems to me. Finding the core of the problem, probably a fear of losing her, might help but if he is just being an ass well, then that isn't likely to change. Sounds like everyone needs to sit down and have a very candid talk. The bf needs to realize that...
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    'Subspace'?? 0_0

    Hi there, I'll give my personal thoughts on it. I identify as a masochist and a submissive. I have in the past enjoyed what some might consider edgy play and tend to do so more under the RACK(Risk Awareness Consesual Kink) train of thought than SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual). My reason being is...
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    O what tangled webs we weave . . .

    I have to agree with the possibility of looking for new jobs, just in case. I am also the type though that although I do not shout about my poly relationship from the rooftops, I also do not try to hide it. To me hiding means I am doing something I think is wrong and it also give others...
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    Relationships without prescriptions

    This is one I go back and forth on. I am involved with a married couple and so consider myself a second even though I have never been made to feel second. Sir has never been overly enthused by the word "second" either but I don't really see any way around it. I tend to have some issues because...
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    Fetlife in the house!

    I just found this place. I'm on FL as well.
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