Recent content by californiaa

Thank you.. Just thank you. I have a lot to read and respond to and I'm really grateful for all of your responses. When I get some alone time, I will respond to each one. I can't type on my computer too much without arousing suspicion and questions. Thank you again and please, keep them coming...

I'm a poly(?) late 20s cis female. In a relationship with a mono late 20s cis female. Before I was in my mid 20s I was only ever with guys. I came out as a lesbian and have solely been with women since. Well besides that one night in university when I got walked home by a darling bi guy and I...

I’ve been inactive for a while. Still lost. Still don’t know who I am or what do. This probably isn’t the place to ramble so I’ll just say hi. I’m Veria. Good to be back. :D

Hi! I’m back. Shortly after joining I got into a monogamous relationship which I am still in. Almost three years later, I still feel like I’m poly. She doesn’t accept it. I can’t even talk about it. So I’m here. I feel like it may be the only safe place. Unless you all know of another forum or...

The idea of coming out as poly after having already come out as a lesbian terrifies me. My family was really accepting despite their religious nature but I don't think they would've that way if I came out as poly.

How common are triads vs vee relationships? Are there any stable and functioning triads on this forum? Do vees work better? Especially if it's M>F<F? Where does the jealousy that is likely to happen stem from in triads? Two people spending more time together?

Thank you! 😁

Thank you Kevin. I've noticed in general there isn't much on lesbian triads but I would like to learn as much as I can anyway. Thanks for the warm welcome. :)

Hi guys. I'm new. To this forum and to the concept of polyamory. I'm 30, lesbian and single. I met this girl that I really like. One day I asked her if she had ever had a threesome or had considered it and she said no. Then a few days later she brings up polyamory and we start talking about...