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I've used VCF film for 12 years now, with no problems/pregnancies. It's a thin little piece of clear soft material, like Saran Wrap. It's made by the people who make VCF foam. Very convenient, cuz you can put it up, ahead of time, or right before. This at least takes care of birth control, not...

Hubby and I swung for six years, until we ended up in a poly relationship. Throughout those years, we always knew that we would like a situation where we could have a small group of swinger friends, that we could do more with, rather than just have sex. Things like hang out, have cookouts, go...

I have had two facebook accounts for quite awhile, one that has all my old swinger's friends on it, and my "regular, vanilla, classmate" one. So far, no one has hit me up to be friends on the wrong one. lol And if they did, I would just deny them, and hit them up through my correct account...

Reading down through the posts, it got me to thinking how your wife went wild and broke a lot of rules, and cocaine was included in the equation. I had a problem with that, when I was 20, for a year or so. I'm now 46 and have never touched a hard drug since. After trying that stuff once or...

My husband was forgetting about me a little. I had to tune him up about it, and now things are good. I think we all tend to get really excited about NRE when going through it. It's a time of crazy thinking, where you can't function normally. This is quite normal, a phase we go through. Try to...

Welcome, i'm also new, but there are alot of great people on here, with alot of great information...sorry to hear of your situation...Candi

In our case, we all agreed to be mono with each other. I know that our bf and gf would be very upset if we were to take on other lovers. And indeed it would change everything, from how it is now. Seems as though if a few days go by, without getting with them, we miss them, and can't wait to...

I am in a pretty happy quad, with another couple, who lives just two houses away, so I know what you mean, when you say, you might as well be living with him. Everything is very happy, but lately, I have noticed my antsy husband getting bored with the situation. Although he really loves and...

I'm sorry to hear that Magdlyn...sounds like you tried to show the wife that you would be a great partner and didn't sound like you came off threatening to her, with your meeting...I hope you do hear from him/or them soon, it's not very fair to keep you in limbo like that. Try and keep your...

hubby is straight, and I am situational bi sexual...I am attracted to certain women, and have had numerous fun times with women, including using strapon's....had a hot, bleach blonde, that look's like a playboy model, do the hell outta me once...talk about a turn on..she did a great job for her...

I really can't comment, where as I am consumed by NRE at this moment, with no ending in sight. I do have a question for the more experienced Poly people..does the relationship die out after the NRE in most cases, or do many continue on with a calmer, loving relationship. I haven't seen alot of...

I think it is really rare...and to have four people fall in love with each other, would be kind of rare also...there would always be one, that wasn't feeling it. In this case, seems as all four feel the same way, and all of us are on a NRE high. Then you add in, that we have been great friends...

my picnic with Jack.. part 2 Well I can't describe just how wonderful yesterday was. It was pretty nice around here yesterday, all sun with a nice cool breeze. I went to the local store and picked up some subs, and on my way back, I passed Bobbi on the road, heading downtown, for a little bit...

Today, i'm excited...because Jack and I get to "do" lunch together. My hubby, Scoobs is getting together with Bobbi also, for lunch at his jobsite. We live out in the country, so Jack and I, have planned on taking off on the wheeler, with some subs and having a picnic on top of the mountain...

I think what all the other have told you, is right on. You are definately being controlled and "made" to be mono to her. She sounds really controlling and demanding. To me,,,it's a situation of..what's good for the goose, is good for the gander. I think she SHOULD be happy for you, that you...