Recent content by Candide

No worries although I can definitely understand the concern about moving too fast, and appreciate that your not afraid to throw the wake up gauntlet down. Even if I were to move in with them I would only be home like 6 or so days a month between my work schedule and my family obligations. I...

Maybe I miss communicated something. We have been exclusive with eachother for about 9 months now. They just moved local to me. While the ultimate goal may be for me to move in that's not going to happen for a while.

Si based lube is awesome.

Let's face it when you bottle up stuff it just fester, and then it could tear apart the relationship. After all this written, and everything we have been through I want this to work out.

I broached the subject the other day with my people, and they were glad that I was able to tell them about my feelings. We discussed it for a little while, and while I feel better about it we really didn't come up with any real solution. We will work it out eventually. I am just glad I was...

To be honest with the how got married I feel like it would have been better if she was more honest with me about the wedding. I had asked her about it previously and her reply was along the lines of it wasn't a big deal. However by the way he tells the story to him it was a big deal. They had...

My brother dated a woman who was allergic to latex. I believe he used the vinyl condoms. I assume they worked just fine from all the moaning I heard.

I have a fet profile. I made it mainly so my female and male love interests can claim me without causing facebook to implode.

I know this is a little necro, but I decided to add a little more to this thread than to start another one. Well it would seem that things are progressing in a positive way. My love interests and I have been apartment hunting. It is crazy how close it is to not have to spend a lot of time or...

I would say that it's the real advantage of a LDR the distance forces the conversation.

I wouldn't say there is a happy ending just yet. Still a lot of learning about who we all are together, and how our dynamic will be. For now the relationship is full of excited energy because I am only able to visit once a month. The real test will be when they move here, and we are living...

It is going well. I will admit that having a LDR is tougher on me than I originally thought it would be. However the phone, texts, mail, and skype help a bit.

I started a new thread to describe part of my poly adventure. http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?p=261667#post261667

I was going to write this thread a couple of months ago, but life got in the way of the internet. I am now waiting for my wort to chill, so I figured this would be as good a time as any to craft my tale. For my birthday I went on a journey. A part self discovery as well as part going to visit...

there is no Uhaul lesbian action here lol. They are actually looking to move more local to me next year, so we are going to take the time to really figure out if he and I are emotionally compatible. It is long road, and I need to make sure my eyes stay open through this process. It is...