Recent content by CaptZebra

How 'bout this? http://polyamory.meetup.com/362/

Check and see if your town is listed: http://www.polyamory.org/SF/groups.html :)

Thanks for all the input. Just to clarify, these are requests, not demands. If she doesn't feel like these are reasonable or she can't honor them for whatever reason, then we will discuss until we get to where we need to be. Mostly, these requests are about me, not her. I have no doubt that...

My partner is planning to spend time with someone new, which is fine. I have several requests for her and I was wondering if I could get some input as to whether or not these are reasonable things to ask for: I would like for her to be home no later than... (still thinking). I would like to...

This is definitely a part of my anxiety. I am also afraid that I will find myself having to deal with the changes, my feelings, and my fears, alone. But this is only going to happen if I don't communicate what I'm thinking, feeling, and needing. This is definitely something I need to work on. I...

This thread seems like it was written specifically for me. I was having a really hard time last night and got some great advice, that included checking out these posts. I don't like emotional pain (does anyone?), so, for the most part, I have dealt with it by stuffing it down and pretending it...

I read the post before and after I posted this, and again just now. I think it is very wise, as are the comments people have left. I've been trying really hard to acknowledge my emotions (something I have historically avoided), to feel them, to breathe through my fear and anxiety. It's easier...

Mostly. I don't think regret is really the right word, though. I definitely trust Peach. Not only has she not gone outside of the boundaries, she's not done anything with anyone at this point, though I believe she will be seeing this person fairly soon. I do need to communicate with her about...

My partner, Peach, has recently expressed interest in being involved with another person. We talked about it, set some boundaries, and now I feel awful. Can anyone give me advice or reassurance or a smack upside the head? I've been with Peach for 6 years. We were actively poly when we first...