Recent content by carguy

Back when I came out to my wife, I told her I might go to a therapist to help sort out how to deal with feeling poly, but being married to a mono person who wanted a mono spouse. So I did start going to a therapist, which I guess gave me enough credibility in my wife's eyes that I wanted to...

It sounds to me like there are other issues other than your husband not allowing you to have relationships that he knows of. It's great that your husband loves you, but you never said what you're getting out of the relationship or that you love him. If you're not in love with him, are you...

Thanks, everyone, for your advice and support. I will be patient. Bach, I read your intro, and it looks like our situations are very similar. I wish you luck!

Yes, this is recent, and I won't cheat on her.

I've been lurking for a while, but I've felt poly for a long time. I finally built up the courage to open up to my wife (been married 10 years, together for 12 years), and the discussion was a complete disaster. I am in love with my wife and we've had a good marriage to date. I respect her...