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    Carmina replied to the thread Needing support.
    I realised I was mainly just feeling I needed to keep up somehow but despite the fact that I was getting lots of OKC likes it all just...
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    Carmina replied to the thread Needing support.
    I've ditched my OKC account and am not actively seeking another relationship for myself. I realised I don't have the energy or...
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    Carmina reacted to Magdlyn's post in the thread Needing support with Like Like.
    I haven't read this whole thread, but when I Googled Why is ok cupid so bad? this reddit thread popped up.
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    Carmina replied to the thread Needing support.
    I guess the point is they just want people to pay now and the free tier seems to have been stripped of any utility, it's just there as a...
  • Carmina
    Carmina replied to the thread Needing support.
    Yeah it's over £50 a month now - I think last time I was using it I was paying 15 maybe 20 at most. Plus I can't see any way to message...
  • Carmina
    Carmina replied to the thread Needing support.
    I did ok again, the second night was harder though. I have started an OK Cupid profile experimentally (well revamped an old one) but...
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    Carmina reacted to Magdlyn's post in the thread I'm Really Struggling with Like Like.
    There is so much good information out there about polyamory. Do the best you can to read up. Meanwhile, make sure you take care of...
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    Carmina reacted to TXretired's post in the thread I'm Really Struggling with Like Like.
    It is important the the two of you talk. He has a responsibility to communicate to you and reassure his desire for you. You also need...
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    My partner comes back tomorrow after the longest period away so far (3 days and 2 nights) with her new partner (which I believe makes...
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    I agree with Kevin - this isn't really about practicalities but fundamentals. It sounds like your husband is being very controlling to...
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    Hi Semperfi4ever, You said, in your previous thread, that he says, that you have to make this work, or he will leave you for her. So...
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    I'm not entirely sure if I am poly, I think it's likely I have pretty strongish monogamous tendencies, but I know that at least some of...
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    Carmina replied to the thread Needing support.
    Yes I need to feel secure and that will help
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    Carmina reacted to kdt26417's post in the thread Needing support with Like Like.
    It does help to have a pattern. I hope you can get through the difficult times.
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    Carmina replied to the thread I'm Really Struggling.
    I know from past experience that rushing into poly unprepared can bring up issues you had not anticipated (particularly when past trauma...
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