Recent content by CarolinaMiz

This was when he got on my last nerve. I liked the idea of supportive wives but didn't get the double standard at all. The third wife says in their intro basically that she didn't want just the man she wanted the family. I'm with the others that he seems to favor the latest wife but the...

This has been a very educational conversation and one that is helping me consider what types of relationships I am looking for and could be comfortable with. My first "poly" relationship was weird when his main squeeze/girlfriend admitted she really didn't like poly at our first get together...

Painfully agreed. Good advice here. I understand the wish but ...

YEP Have a planned meeting for tomorrow. So far we've kept it to coffee and conversation but I wonder what he'd do if I stopped sidestepping the suggestive comments .... he already knows I've been holding back because this other situation had ticked me off so badly. HHmmmm time to take a...

Well - I made cookies that night - ate most of the pan within two days - so THAT helped immensely. Did I mentioned we did the "missyou - missyoutoo" dance? Yeah. Had some more talks with a friend and reading here and saw him change is his OKC profile from poly to looking for a special women...

Sounds right to me. A friend and I are discussing some of the challenges I'm having and what this experience is teaching me. One of the truths I know about myself is that I frequently 'know' something - but I haven't internalized it. Logically I can say - I know I have an issue with this - but I...

"you are so hot " me: Really??? Why? "because i would love to give you a massage, no sex, just a great massage, and will do a special finger massage to if you like " Be still my heart. Thank you but no. :rolleyes:

I think when he said that - he thought we were good. And we had two meetings? connections? dates? after that. But then when I would ask a question about her - nothing. That's what I kept circling around to ..... Then this past week .... our regular communication dropped off. I think that's...

I sent a message yesterday morning. Couple of endearments and "hope you are well" I stated I wanted to touch base with him on where we stand I stated I still wanted to continue in a relationship with him I stated it would be good to communicate what we both need ::::crickets and cicadas::::

Just a comment ... I really wanted a like button on these posts.

All of the above. I know this has to be painful for both of them. And while I didn't cause this - I have to wonder if it started from conversation that night. Maybe not. It could have been brewing for a long time. I told him I was sorry - I am. I said I felt communication had been awkward but...

AND I feel like crap. We cannot get together this weekend because they are taking some time apart and he is thinking through some things.

Can I borrow your voice and keep it in the back of my head please? :D

From another thread: Well ... here goes nothing ... I asked to get together with them sometime this weekend. Specifically both of them. Waiting to hear back - and I had already asked earlier in the week about their plans for the weekend with no reply. I'm really afraid I'll back down from...

I can relate to the thoughts about being restricted to certain types of giving/receiving? Somewhere I was reading that it is rarely as simple as A does and supplies this, B does and supplies that and C does and supplies the other with no overlap and only certain people can give to certain...