Thanks for the quick replies! Poly is very cool - something that I even strive toward. Perhaps we will get there at some point. Perhaps other poly couples start the way my wife and I are. Because for me to get there it would be a process. Probably one where my wife DID develop feelings for her...
My name is Ed and I have been turned on by the idea of my wife sleeping with another man for as long as I can remember. Now she has met someone and is ready to do so. The first attempt was a disaster. She changed her mind, etc. She has given him oral while at work and was then put off by the...