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I am also new to polyamory... but here is my 2 cents... honesty is key.. if you are just having casual sex with her... she needs to know... and your bf needs to know that is your intention. If she wants love... and you cant reciprocate. .. maybe she should move on. if you feel deeper emotions...

Steve, thanks a ton. Great advice.

WhatHappened, Tom and Bailey were not together when we met. They were broken up, but occasionally still saw each other and were considering getting back together. I have talked to other people who know them both and this is the story on both sides. Bailey is abusive, physically, for sure. She...

Dagferi, thank you for the response. It's nice to hear about success! Bookbug, I have decided to leave to him how he wants to deal with his relationship with Bailey. He says he wants to try to remain friends with her, and although I am not thrilled about it, I get it. It's not my choice anyway...

Okay, so, I am in a lovely relationship with my husband Galen and my boyfriend Tom. When I met Tom, he was just getting out of a relationship with this girl Bailey. She and Tom have had an on-again off-again relationship for a few years. Tom is somewhat entrenched with her because he was acting...

Kevin, The agreement that "okay we wont fall in love." Was easy for us, for the most part. Most of the people we were swinging with were fun and enjoyable and sexy... but beyond friendship there wasn't the connection needed for an emotional relationship. That is, of course - until T. It just...

I just read your blog " the journey" from start to finish and some of this blog's posts... I LOVE them! Although your transition to being "with" Dude while maintaining your marriage with MrS seems fraught with more turmoil that my current situation so far... I shared a lot of the same moments...

JaneQsmythe I actually have read some of your blog posts and I find them really inspiring... partly because they reflect what I am trying to do here. . But also just because they are so candid and genuine. .. and they speak to me a lot. I had girlfriends in the past too, during our marriage and...

We are definitely in the forming/storming phase. Emotions are flying every which way. Scary is actually the perfect word for how i feel about things sometimes. Like I am standing at the edge of a cliff with a pool beneath me- deciding whether to jump... or back away. Going from swinging to...

Hi So where to start? I am from Wyoming. You can call me Cherry. I am Married- quite happily to G for 8 years. I am 26F and he is 28M. We have two beautiful little girls. I also have a budding relationship with T (26M). Before we met T, G and I were swingers for a little over a year. Before we...