Recent content by claire2

  1. C

    My boyfriend just broke up with his girlfriend of nine years

    I spent a lot of time thinking about this the last night and day, and I'm glad to have some clarity now. The thoughts, perspectives and advice here have been great. Everything is going to be okay. Here's what he posted on Facebook today: For those of you who (really) know me, the reason that...
  2. C

    My boyfriend just broke up with his girlfriend of nine years

    Your situation is a lot like mine! Reading about how you felt is helpful with me processing my feelings. I understand very well about you feeling that your boyfriend was not being fully with you, even when he was with you, due to his grief. My boyfriend told me the other day that when I...
  3. C

    My boyfriend just broke up with his girlfriend of nine years

    GalaGirl: Thank you for your response! Yes, the depth of his feelings are somewhat of a shock to me. There's knowing and there's knowing. It seems the only constant in life is change. Thanks for the wonderful insight, advice and tips. He just texted me and told me that could not survive...
  4. C

    My boyfriend just broke up with his girlfriend of nine years

    Thank you for the response, and I believe you nailed it. Now for me to work through it.
  5. C

    My boyfriend just broke up with his girlfriend of nine years

    Hi. I guess I'm insecure on how much he loves me, compared to how much he loves her. I've never worried or thought about it before. It's weird and my feelings make no sense to me, and logically I know he loves me very much.
  6. C

    My boyfriend just broke up with his girlfriend of nine years

    Hi all, I mostly lurk here, maybe have posted once or twice. I like this forum very much. I am and have been very happy in my relationship with my boyfriend of the last three years. I live a couple hours away, and see him regularly--staying with him a couple weekends every month. He has...
  7. C

    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    I think I have a "wife" Hi! I mostly lurk here, but am coming out of lurkdom to tell you this :) This is my little happy story for the day. When I was married, my husband expected me to do all the domestic duties. ALL of them. I used to say to him, Wow, I wish I had a wife! Why don't I...
  8. C

    The Mormon Club!

    I have no idea what you just said, hahaha! Except for MFM V, which I'm going to assume means male female male V relationship. :)
  9. C

    The Mormon Club!

    This has been interesting reading! I don't have anything to add right now, except one thing: I THINK that my life-long conditioning that polygamy was right and will be practiced in the next life MIGHT have helped me to not recoil when I was approached with being in this trio that I'm in...
  10. C

    The Mormon Club!

    Don't have time to read through everything here, but I want to so will later! I don't post here very often, but like to lurk. Anyway, I am an exmormon. I was born and raised in the mormon church, my family is all mormon, and I'm a descendant of polygamists. I HATE polygamy and all it...
  11. C

    Brand new to polyamory, I need advice!

    I'm on the other side of things...I'm the new, second woman for my boyfriend. We've been in a relationship for 16 months now. Here's how I like it...I like to spend time with both of them initially, and then she'll say goodnight and my boyfriend and I will have alone time. And occasionally...
  12. C

    Sex VS BDSM

    Oh, you said that so perfectly! This is how i feel about my Master. Only him. Which is how i ended up in a poly relationship and don't even care! He has a girlfriend, but he owns me, his slave. And that means so very much to me! p.s. i did get that flogging over the weekend, too...two of...
  13. C

    Sex VS BDSM

    This is how I feel, too. Submitting is not just a little fun on the side for me, it's deeply emotional and psychological and incredibly intimate, whether penetration or orgasms are involved or not. Psychological submission involves an incredible amount of trust for me, and the power exchange...
  14. C

    combatting the long distance blues

    Wow, 900 miles! It's good that you have your husband with you for day to day. My Master has suggested that I could find someone that is closer to home to fill in the blanks but I have no desire to do that. He's the poly, not me. :) Thanks for your post, KC43!
Back
Top