Recent content by ClarkMorgan

Different I made the mistake of asking my wife the same question. She was more diplomatic, but essentially told me he was better. I/we worked on our sex life and it got much better. Now she tells me she can't compare us. The sex is great with both of us, but it's different which is good. If...

I think I need to clear a few things up. Our relationship has gotten much better in the last few weeks. I actually posted this thread Monday when she was "unhappy" with me. She resolved the unhappiness herself, and suggested getting the motel Friday night. She recognizes these "unhappy"...

Making Progress You guys are better than going to counseling, and a lot cheaper! First a little background. We were both naïve and inexperienced when we got married. I don’t want to get deep into details and the why’s, but Lora was sexually frustrated early in our marriage, and although it...

I'm just not a passionate person We were in love at the time and still are. I guess we just never had a passionate connection. From dictionary.com: passion 1. any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling, as love or hate. 2. strong amorous feeling or desire; love; ardor. 3. strong sexual...

Thanks I sat down with my wife and went through all your replies. There was a lot of good advice and it was a real eye-opener for me. The common thread we saw was passion. Her and her BF have a lot of passion for each other, too much to contribute it all to NRE. I don't think we ever had the...

This is long, but I'm desperate and need any help I can get. My wife and I have been married 27 years. Over that time our sex life ranged from OK to poor to non-existent. She has always had to use a vibrator to climax. Over the years we watched videos, read books, etc. We tried different...

Thanks for all the advice. It's nice to know I'm not alone.

Hi, We are very new to the Poly scene and would like some insight/advice from some experienced folks. My wife Lora and I have been married 27 years. She is 48 and I am 53. We have two kids in their early 20's twenties living at home and going to college. They do not know any of this. We had...