Recent content by ClayGeek

But then what purpose does the existing partnership serve? Don't get me wrong, I'm just trying to understand. If it's no excitement but only commitment..

Alright! That clears things up. Thank you for explaining. I am just pretty confused by reading what I read.. some people describe it just as you. Others are able to get that energy back throughout years of their partnership. I don't really know which route I want to take, it's hard. I...

You mean that NRE chasers don't know what they want? I don't really get it yet, could you help me understand you better?

Hi! Thanks for your response. I think I get what you're saying, but it also feels wrong to "give up" on our previous lustful and wonderfully passionate connection, to only pursue that with others. I get that it might be the point of poly for you, but I read about so many other people who didn't...

Hi! I'm new to this forum, since I'm currently in a monogamous relationship, but thinking about other possibilities. This comes with a lot of doubts, which I wanted to discuss on this forum. So partner and me both have a bit of a dopamine addictive personality, I'd say (possibly both...