Recent content by Cloudy

YouAreHere and AnnabelMore: Many thanks to both of you. Both responses made good sense and helped me to further wrap my head around all this. So much for my n00b brain to take in!

Well, after reading so many posts, books, and articles over the last couple weeks that my head hurts and my eyes are bugging out, I've decided to take a step back from the poly table. My GF and I still hope this is something we can revisit at a later time, but too many things I read...

Hmm... not sure. I think, provided my current GF would be ok with it, that I would still pursue the new relationship, but it would have to be very much as a secondary relationship, and I would want at least a friendship between my existing gf and my new gf. This arrangement would definitely not...

Wow! I must say I didn't expect such a response to my humble little post. Thank you so much to everyone who took the time to read and respond! Now for some responses (gotta figure out how to quote posts): @CharlotteSometimes: I agree that emotional reactions don't equal jerk, but the root...

As this is my first post here, I'll tell a bit about myself, both as an introduction, and also to give some background for a question that's been plaguing me for some time. I'm a 32-year old heterosexual male, a non-traditional college student, dating a 22-year old bisexual female, who is...