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trews oh how the heck could i have forgotten the Trews?!! such a good song..and it upsets me every time i hear it. Maybe if the singer was more open about his feelings.....he wouldn't have to be a man of two minds.....the trio could be three people of one mind. *sigh* I think the idealist in...

and the answer is emphatically "yes"...."yes Britney i AM game" *still embarassed*

anybody seen the lyrics to Britney Spears song "3"? Ok, ok....it's Britney....but still it's got a good beat and i can dance to it. *embarassed*:o here's a link....provocative to be sure http://www.britneyspears.com/2009/09/3-lyrics.php

this thread has been very insightful. Thanks SC for the wiki link. I'm not sure any of my relationships can be pigeon holed into any of those types of love, but i sure can see facets of them in those descriptions.

been reading through this again. Porcupine, i think trying to "define" might be part of my problem. I appreciate your insight.

hey...and Welcome!

welcome i'm Canadian too...but from the far east coast. Welcome to the boards..there's definitely a lot to sift through on here. :)

sounds an awful lot like me Krummi, I understand your frustration. I am very much in the same boat. Well except that I'm female...and so is my life partner....so i guess it's not the same at all. hahaha :) Welcome to the board

i feel like I'm thread hi-jacking a bit.. :) but I keep telling myself "it took a while to put the weight on, it's not gonna come off overnight"

that's so cool. I like that even you put the question marks after the boyfriend part. It just goes to show that labels aren't for us necessarily.....it's for the outside world.

wow!! congrats on the weight loss! I myself have dropped down from 222 at my highest, and am currently hovering around 195. I'd like to loose another 20 pounds if I could.....working on it.

Thanks LR for the new thread. I appreciate it! and thanks for all the responses as well. I'm learning.

thanks everybody for helping to validate what I feel for this girl. Yes, I did say "she." :) misconstruing my own thoughts....erm.....i guess what I was trying to say was...am I just trying to make this more "correct" or "honorable" .... are those the wrong words???......argh... ok, by...

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ok...i'm not sure how to search for this exactly, so indulge me a new thread if you all will. I've been reading through the stories and experiences and have found that for the most part, (allow me to generalize for a moment) that random sexual encounters aren't exactly poly (whether your...