Recent content by coloradicali

I can't thank you enough for writing this down. I've been struggling with finding the words for where I am and I think you've really helped me.

Thanks Bluebird. I am curious at what point you inform your partners or they inform you about another partner coming into the mix. Do you inform them the first time you go on a date or meet someone you have interest in? Or is it only when sex is possible or after sex has happened? You mentioned...

I can relate in some ways. I do not identify as poly but have been with a poly partner for two years. I like the independence it provides and the ability to sustain my own relationships without the feeling I have to invite my partner to everything. I do struggle at times as I cannot relate to...

My relationship with my partner is evolving and this is my first poly relationship. We are two years in and I have recently become the primary partner. I'm struggling with revising boundaries based on where we are now and the kinds of things that should be disclosed from both sides. One that is...

Sure, I also posted in Friendships & Dating, but happy to say more here. More info, ok. (Feel free to move thread if more appropriate elsewhere.) I've been in a mostly mono/poly relationship for the past two years. It's my first poly relationship and for the most part has been a positive...

Hello. Clearly, I'm new to the forum and am hopeful I'll find one or two people I can chat with on or offline about poly, relationships, life, etc. I've been in a poly relationship for two years but struggle to find my own resources to talk to who don't already have history with my partner...