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There should be college courses on ethical non-monogamy...

OK, these are good things to think about. Where are my boundaries with what I don't want to hear about, while having respect for the other person. Also, how would I like to be treated if I were him and how would I like to be treated by my partner when and if I decide to see other people...

thanks for this. Ultimately I just am trying to figure out how to get the perspective right in my own head a so that I can be supportive and inclusive. Do people find that it is easier not to know everything? or to do the don't ask don't tell route? I just also want her to be able to feel safe...

We agreed that we both wanted the same type of polyamory. That if either of us found another person, that we would want for the other to have a relationship with that person as well. (not necessarily romantic but at least familiar and amicable). We also both agreed that yes, there would be sex...

So I've read a lot of people expressing less concern about their partners being sexually active with other people, but then saying they would have an extremely difficult time dealing with potential emotional connection between their partners and other people. Where do people stand on this for...