Recent content by ConfusedBunny

Thanks everybody for your help! :) Ok, so the big messages I'm getting from everyone are: - Have my husband make me feel like a priority - Build up my self-confidence - Be myself (but maybe not too scared to slut it up a little) - If it impacts our relationship, don't do it (Selene) -...

Thanks. I hope things will work out for me, too. We are definitely waiting to have kids. We are in no rush. I just feel like life is busy/crazy enough as it is. Add kids and more relationships - Yikes! I scared I'll be stuck with all the responsibilities while he is out having fun.

Thanks. I should try to stay in the present. It's hard, but maybe I'm not trying enough. I guess everyone has baggage. I think he actually cares too much - he really, really doesn't want to hurt me and doesn't want to resent me and ends up being really angry with himself. He just also really...

Thanks for the analogy. I totally get that, it's just not for me (because of all of my crazy issues). And my husband only looks at me in rentment/disgust/disdain/apathy (or even just tries to avoid looking at me) every now and then when he is in a really, really bad mood from thinking about this...

Sorry, I should have been more clear (although I already felt like I was rambling!). He would be quite happy for me to be with other men. His remark about wanting me to be bisexual is just a smartass comment he makes when he is feeling upset and we've been talking for a long time (it's hard for...

Hi everyone, This is my first time posting, but I have been reading this forum for a few months now (I hope this is the right place to post this...). My marriage is not doing so good. I have a wonderful partner and we get along great most of the time. We live and work together. We have been in...