Recent content by confusedtink

I did not at all find whathappend's advice and questions at all constructive. How one can presume to question someone they don't even know and to assume that my partner is treated as a dirty secret is beyond me. You only have a portion of what the issue is. As of right now to some people she is...

For those of you concerned for what I can offer a partner and what not in all honesty that would be between me and them. For those worried about secrecy let me assure you my family unit knows. Not my extended as in my parents or siblings. With the exception of my father I will eventually tell...

I'm sure you've all heard it before. I just felt a need for a rant. My picture was flagged and removed of my eyes because it doesn't fit their policy. Anyway I'm annoyed because I am not openly poly or openly bisexual. If I were to be open about either it would likely affect my volunteering and...

My husbands partner and I are getting along well and my husband and her fiancé are getting along as well. Her fiancé and I have chatted, but not spent any significant time together with out our partners. Things seem to all be going toward that type of poly and to me that is just fine. I don't...

We just recently told our 14 year old. That went fine. Apparently we did manage to get across the accepting people for who they are thing pretty well. Lol Anyway the 8 almost 9 year old will be up next. He is exceptionally bright and will start to figure out something is going on. So he'll get...

I do have to be fair to my husband. The problem has been that I've been like this for almost a week. This happens right before the lady thing. I lose a grip on my emotional center and everything was happening all at once and I was not handling all the emotions well. However I think I have a grip...

Thank you 😊

I probably should've been more clear. 😀 I really like my husbands girlfriend. She seemed to like me too. So that's great. What didn't work out was a connection I thought I was working on with another guy, but I should've known better. So the thing that was worrying me turned out wonderfully.

Not sure I'd call it that at least not for me. Could be the side effect to them that I'd call that. Which isn't fair or right and I don't want to be doing that.

It's an apt way to describe how I'm feeling. I was stupid and got myself interested and excited in someone who seemed to like me too. Now that's gone. I'm angry with myself because I let myself get there. It's now bleeding into mine and hubby's relationship. Which in return is affecting his and...

Thank you. It went great. My possible connection not so much, but I should've know better.

Pretty much what everyone said. Just keep doing it. You'll probably get used to it. It took me awhile too. My husband is persistent lol. Now I love doing it and having him do it back. Good luck.

Update Hi Kevin and anyone else interested. Tomorrow I am meeting my metamour. Which is good. I have been so very worried and nervous that she isn't going to like me which has been the huge reason for my anxiety. I know not everyone has to like each other, but to me it is important because if...

There are growing pains for sure, but overall I'm loving how excited and happy he is, which in return makes me happy. Things are a bit harder for me to process right now because of my monthly hormonal imbalance 😂, but I know it's contributed to some of my anxiety and such. We do talk it out...

Same here.. I feel many emotions at a time... sometimes it sucks because you have to sort out which feeling is the one causing the trouble of it's more than one troublesome and string emotion. Thank you Kevin. They have their second date set up already. We talked through my anxiety when he got...