Recent content by Conundrum

BlueShoes, I appreciate your thoughts and you have many valid points. I am wondering though why your sympathies lie with the wife? I'm not being facetious or argumentative, I am truly curious. I'm beginning to wonder if my expectations of a household provided for and run equally by all members...

Karen, You are correct. I'm sure that I do things and have behaviors that irritate them. I do like to be needed and take care of those I love although I do feel that we all have equal responsibilities. I do need to make changes in myself first and I have realized that I am never going to...

I'm a 39 yr old female living with my 40 yr old "boyfriend", his wife and their 2 kids for the past 4 years. I met him first through the BDSM scene and quickly fell in love. I met his wife and realized that in a different situation, she and I would not be friends. It wasn't anything in...