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Cont... CTF: My real issue is twofold; The decision has already been made, so suggesting that I think long & hard about it is only useful if I could time-travel, and that you kinda are arguing in favor of dis-honesty by way of advocating that anyone should keep something big to themselves...

Wow, I can barely keep up with how fast this thread is moving... I can only really work on posting when the gf isn't around, as per our agreement to not bring this up for a while (Though she knows I am on here, it's not a secret) Gonna have to split this into two posts! First of all I wanna...

Wow this thread is POPPIN o.o PurpleSun: 14 years this June. Yes, people change, especially over such a long time. But I don't see this as a change in myself, only in how I identify or present myself. I wasn't aware of the term polyamory until 2-3 years ago, and I didn't really learn about it...

Magdlyn: It's been years since we got passed the point where we recognized that claiming attractive people aren't hot is a damned lie, after which could comment on attractive people without judgement. My favorite is when she points out good looking women (She has some bi tendencies) :) I can...

Wow so many things to respond to! :) Many of you are recommending time for her to process, which obviously is a good idea. Only problem is that to her, unanswered questions lead her to the most extreme of possibilities. Her mind runs wild... She was having panic attacks because she was assuming...

About my current relationship: My partner and I met online 14 years ago, I was 17 at the time. We fell for each other and remained exclusive through 2 1/2 years of long-distance (TX & VA) until she was able to move in with me, and we've been living together in TX for about 11 1/2 years now. She...

First of all thank you all for your comments and encouragement. :) No pain at all really! I understand that I may be/seem rigid in my approach, but as you also said: I do have GAD (as well as other non-diagnosed forms of anxiety) so this is my approach to anything new, big, potentially...

Greetings all :) I'm a 30 y/o straight male in a committed long-term mono relationship (more about that some other time). I feel like I may be polyamorous, and if so, I think I'd feel better being able to identify that way. It would explain a lot about some internal struggles in my life. If I...