Thanks for your input, Sage. We definitely need to learn to communicate more openly and effectively, and we are on that path. My concern is that my negative thoughts about polyamory will sabotage our relationship before we learn to communicate and work through it.
I guess I'm looking for advice...
Let me sum up the scenario. I'm a 36-year old male (Tracy), engaged to a 30-year old female (Claire). We have been in a mono relationship for the year and half, since we met.
About 4 weeks ago, an old flame of hers visited town and she realized she was still in love with him. She asked to go...