Thank you, guys, for your input.
After much consideration and talking with my partner, I've realized that the reason I want that "primary" label so badly is because it feels like a shield. I'm so terrified of losing him, that he'll love someone else more than he loves me, and leave me. I...
Struggling with jealousy, fear
I'm really struggling in a new polyamorous relationship. My partner has a new girlfriend, and while both of us were supportive of polyamory in theory, in practice it is proving extremely difficult for me to handle.
Our relationship was recovering from a very...