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    Wife of 12 yrs brought up open relationship

    I have no idea what she does when Im not there. I do know that when I am there she sleeps, gets the kids off to school, lives on her phone, watches tv,eats, and finds some reason to leave at least twice without inviting me to go. I would assume its about the same when I am gone.
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    Wife of 12 yrs brought up open relationship

    She has declind to discuss any of this with me while I am at work. For me I dont like to just let things wait. I go home next week, but I tell you it is utter torture for me to just hold it in. My mind races and I cant sleep no matter how tired I am. Hopefully we can figure all this out...
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    Wife of 12 yrs brought up open relationship

    The kids were too young then to know what was going on. But now our daughter is 12 and very keen to her surroundings. As far as me being able to pursue an open relationship myself is near impossible. I dont believe that I could find the time for that or even if she would accept it or not. If...
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    Wife of 12 yrs brought up open relationship

    Information she kept from me was, how many partners, frequency, and so forth. After the last time we both agreed that wasn't for us. Because of the info that was being withheld from me. To me her not telling me before is the same as cheating. Maybe I am wrong about that. I believe that all...
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    Wife of 12 yrs brought up open relationship

    I work on a supply vessel, so there is no way I could have an extra marital relationship at work ( all dudes, not my thing!) Also when I leave for work or home I go straight there and straight home not pit stops. At home we have a small horse farm, so when I get home I end up working more there...
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    Wife of 12 yrs brought up open relationship

    Hello to all, My wife and I have been married for 12 yrs. Two days ago she brought up an open marriage like it was my idea. I am a bit confused by this because if it is something that we do. It will be unfair to me, as I work offshore and I am gone for 28 days at a time and home 14 days. On my...
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