Recent content by Crimsonian

Hello everyone! I'm a traveller who's been in a polyam bubble for a long time, but hasn't really read any of the literature yet. Is anybody aware of a good resource to "borrow" polyam e-books, or somebody who might be willing to share e-books they've bought with people who move around a lot? The...

I guess that's true too.

I'm not sure exactly what the dilemma is, to tell the truth. Going along to the sex club together was a fairly spontaneous decision - I said I was going and they decided to come along too. The impression I got was just that seeing me with other people at the sex club was a little too 'close for...

Thanks :)

This gives me hope (and the one or two blog posts I read gave me life :D). I definitely have a habit of painting relationships in a 'black or white' light - i.e if ONE bad thing happens, that's the end of that. It's nice to be reminded that mistakes will be made and it's an ongoing process...

I do agree with you actually. I'm wondering how I can address this without making them feel it's all their fault though... Perhaps it's just a case of boundaries and aftercare to be discussed? I'm finding this a very fragile topic to raise with them actually.

Gosh, thank you so much for your thoughtful comment. I'm sorry you had a difficult time as well. Did it work well for you and your partner in the end? I want to support mine as much as possible, but would prefer it if neither of us had to put aside our own happiness completely for the sake of...

Reply Thank you everyone for your sage input so far and your thoughts have definitely set my brain working ! Mixed opinions here . Personally I still believe there is room for compromise in this case - my partner and I are very close . It's just a case of having that discussion without lying...

Reply Please could you elaborate on exactly was being 'forced' here? Going to the sex club together was their idea. To be totally honest I'd have preferred to go alone.

Thank you for the amazing insight Poly partner here, this was amazing insight for me into how my mono partner might be feeling, and how I can support them. Thank you so so much!

Hi all. I'm new here, but I would really appreciate advice from some poly/mono gurus! Background In the past few months, my relationship with my partner has reached a much deeper level. Right from the beginning, I was open about poly (I have two other open relationships) and also VERY clear...

Hi :) Call me Crimson, I've been poly for a couple of years now, but recently the relationships have started to get much more serious. Here for some pro tips from the polyverse on long term non-monogamy if that makes sense ^^